Monday, September 5, 2011

A Million Reasons for Kenya's Girls to stay in School

Life can be very boring, when all you are doing is accumulating. Accumulating dates, wealth, status, work experience, without giving back to the community. I have always done at least 100 hrs a year on community service be it in the rape rescue center, the children home and the under privileged primary school.

For the last six months i have not had a chance to give back, or as i like to call it pay it forward till i meet a dear friend Kiarie.

The World Bank carried a study that showed that girls miss 10-20% of school days during period school missed due to period, girls complain about poor sanitary products or lack of any. The girls are forced to use pieces of cloths or tissue paper that is bound to stain the clothes and cause them serious infections.
 Surprisingly the pioneer of this program has been a Guy, Kiare. He tells me that this idea came when he was providing first aid equipment to Baharini Primary School, a community school in Maweni Village in Kikambala, Kilifi. The issue of girls and their needs touched him that he reached out to all his friends on a noble idea of all donating a dollar each (Ksh 80), to buy one pack of sanitary towels. thus a noble cause started.

i was based in Mombasa with Kiarie and i became his number 2, right hand gal to teach him more on sanitary towels and also help him lobby the Mombasa market. I acted as a drop off point in Mombasa town,  his friends in  Eldoret, Nakuru, Nairobi and Mombasa who act as drop off points also thus reducing the logistic costs.


So our quest is to collect a million packets of sanitary pads and reach as many girls as possible and make sure they don’t loose valuable class time.
Latter on we decided, what is a sanitary towel without anything to hold it, Did these girls have any panties to hold on to the sanitary towels. So came a new campaign to raise money to buy underwear to support the sanitary towel campaign and help keep the girl child in school.


Platonic Freindship

A study that aimed to get respondents to approximate what percentage of their friends had a close but platonic cross-sex relationship. The average for teens was 73 percent; for 20somethings, 59 percent; for 30somethings through 50somethings, about half; and for 60somethings, 24 percent. The trend could be taken to mean that younger (unmarried, unattached) people are more likely to form cross-sex friendships in any era. But it could also reveal something about the time in which we live: Maybe it's much easier to make cross-sex friends now than it's ever been. 

its the meeting of a kindred spirit in form of the other sex. a person you can let loose and just be friends.Is this possible?  it is said that men never go out of their way to keep female friends unless they have an agenda, an motive.

Today: are you happy

are you? :-)